Premature ejaculation
Many men wonder if they last in bed as long as their partners would like them to last. They are afraid that women are not completely satisfied with their sexual abilities and that their erection is not strong enough. Nobody knows what the ideal number of minutes that a man should maintain his erection is. Specialists say that it depends on the couple’s sexual rhythm and on the partner’s desire. There are many differences between couples and that is why it is very difficult to set some strict rules as far as the erection and the ejaculation are concerned.
People say that the man’s performance is ok as long as he can maintain his erection until the woman reaches her orgasm. In other words, the sexual act is perfect when both partners cum together in the same time. When the man ejaculates without being able to give his partner an orgasm, we can talk about premature ejaculation. These kinds of problems are very frequent nowadays and the causes are many.
There are many types of premature ejaculation. You can call premature ejaculation the situation when the man ejaculates before penetration (ante portas). This happens often when the man is too sensitive and when he can’t control his emotions and his body. The simple idea of penetrating his partner makes him ejaculate. There is also another type of premature ejaculation: the ejaculation that happens after some minutes of penetration. Sometimes, this can be the result of the stimulation of the penis’s head or the result of a strong emotion.
Unfortunately, premature erection is associated to sexual problems. You must know that a man who ejaculates fast is not necessarily sick. There are cases when the man suffers of sexual dysfunctions, but many times the premature ejaculation can be produced only by some psychological problems. Moreover, specialists have noticed that lately more and more men suffering of stress and anxiety face this problem of premature ejaculation. The stress influences directly the sexual life. A stressed man becomes sometimes incapable to maintain his erection for a long time. The mind can’t control the penis anymore and that is why the premature ejaculation occurs.
There are many methods to treat premature ejaculation. When the problem is physical, men can take pills or injections that will solve this issue in a short time. Nowadays, premature erection can be cured no matter how bad the physical problem is. If the problem is psychological, the treatment is a little bit more complicated. Communicating with your partner is the first thing that you have to do. She will understand you and she will be able to make you feel comfortable. You must relax and enjoy the beauty of the moment. You can begin by having a longer prelude. This will help you forget about your ejaculation and to make you focus on sensations and pleasure. Once you’ve eliminated this obsession of premature erection from your mind, you can concentrate better upon your erection. You will see that the mind is very powerful if you know how to use it. You can control your penis and your ejaculation too.
Don’t exaggerate with the use of gels or lubricants. These products can be used in order to improve the sexual intercourse, but they will not help you keep your erection longer. Most men with such problems take special pills for their body and respectively for their mind. These treatments are very efficient and many patients have admitted that their sexual life has seriously improved after such treatments.
Take care of you and of your partner. If you notice that there is a problem with your erection, don’t ignore it and ask for your doctor’s advice. Follow a good treatment and you will be able to keep your partner satisfied all the time. Eliminate premature ejaculations from your life and offer the one that you love a multitude of orgasms.
Tags: premature ejaculation, sexual dysfunctions, sexual problems
